One of
those internet stories that make you a bit emotional.
-THE
SPECIAL YOU
One
day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other
students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between
each
name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could
say
about each of their classmates and write it down. It took the
remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the
students left the room, each one handed in the papers. That Saturday,
the
teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of
paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual. On
Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire
class
was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I
meant
anything to anyone!" and "I didn't know others liked me so much"
were
most of the comments. No one ever mentioned those papers in class
again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their
parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its
purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That
group
of students moved on. Several years later, one of the students waskilled
in Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special
student. She
had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He
looked so handsome, so mature. The church was packed with
his friends.
One
by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The
teacher was the last one to bless the coffin. As she stood there, one of
the soldiers
who acted as pallbearer came up to her. "Were you Mark's
math
teacher?" he asked. She nodded: "Yes." Then he said "Mark talked
about you a
lot." After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates
went together
to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there,
obviously
waiting to speak with his teacher. "We want to show you
something,"
his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket. "They
found this on
Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize
it." Opening
the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of
notebook
paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many
times. The
teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on
which she had
listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had
said about
him. "Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said.
"As you can
see, Mark treasured it.." All of Mark's former class mates
started to
gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said "I
still have my
list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home." Chuck's
wife said
"Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album." "I have mine
too" Marilyn
said. "It's in my diary." Then Vicki, another classmate,
reached into
her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and
frazzled list
to the group. "I carry this with me at all times, " Vicki
said and
without batting an eyelash, she continued "I think we all saved
our lists."
That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She
cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never
see him again.
The
density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life
will end one
day. And we don't know when that one day will be. So
please, tell
the people you love and care for, that they are special and
important. Tell them before it is too late...
AND
ONE WAY TO ACCOMPLISH this is to forward this message on. If you do
not send it,
you will have, once again passed up the wonderful
opportunity
to do something nice and beautiful. If you've received this,
it is because
someone cares for you. If you're "too busy" to take those
few minutes
right now to forward this message on, would this be the VERY
first time you didn't do that little thing that would
make a difference?
The
more people that you send this to, the better you'll be at reaching
out to those you care about.
Remember what you put into the lives of others comes back into your own
life.
MAY YOUR DAY BE AS SPECIAL AS YOU ARE
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